The signature of the arum lily; the spadix resembles the male reproductive organ and the spathe represents the female reproductive organ. Arum lilies hold a special place in the harmonising of physical relationships. Arum lily symbolises total commitment to a partner. Trauma and horror at discovering that your partner is unfaithful, committing adultery or is involved in deviant sexual practises is very distressing. Supports a loving couple who are planning to have children. The trauma of not being able to conceive.